My husband and I just built the farmhouse table and I went to stain it and it was the wrong colour (darn!!!) so I'm back to sanding it again to get to raw wood. But it got me thinking should I use stain and then polyurethane? or the same stuff I used before a stain/poly combo? What have you all used on your tables so that it was durable for the amount of washing it's going to get.